One of the best thing that can ever happen to a man is getting married to the right woman. Though, there is no perfect woman on earth, however, there are some warning signs, physical and behavioral attitude that a man who really wants to live long and enjoy his marriage should watch out for.
Marriage is an honorable life achievement, sweet thing to experience and a fundamental deciding factor to the success and longevity of both the woman and the man. Based on the topic of discussion, we have listed out the top ten categories of woman a man should never make the mistake of getting married to.
- 1# A woman that flirts
A woman that flirts are often seen as ‘extrovert’ because they can easily mix and freely relate with people. One of the major mistake a man can make is to be blinded by love and decide to settle down with this type of woman.
The truth is that, if your man loves you, it is quite natural and accepted for him to be jealous and wants to keep you all for himself.
if a man marries a flirtatious woman, the marriage will crumble because the man himself will no longer be able to accept such attitude from his wife.
One natural habit about a woman that flirts is that she naturally makes all men she flirts around feel as if she is interested in them ( and in most cases, it may not be true). A woman that flirts is like a scent that naturally attracts men to itself!!
In addition, any slightest gossip that the woman is double dating or cheating easily sinks into the man’s belief because he has known his woman to be flirtatious ( which in most cases, it might not even be true that she is sleeping around).
Lesson: Wants to marry, avoid the flirtatious woman that freely makes men feel as if she is interested in them. Open your eyes and watch!!
- 2# A woman that is disrespectful
In some women, it is just in their DNA and gene to be disrespectful. They lack courtesy, decorum and they are very much rude.
From research, domestic violence from a man to a woman is triggered by 1. cheating from the woman 2. rudeness and disrespect from the woman!!
Marriage is so honourable; it is like a egg that needs to be nurtured with maturity and respect. If you discover that your woman is rude, saucy to your friends, family members or even at her workplace, then this is a pointer that you will not enjoy the marriage at all.
Lesson: A stitch in time saves nine bro!!
- 3# A woman that loves Sex so much
Most women cheats not because they do not love their man, not because they do not have money, not because their man is not taking care of them but majorly because they are sex freak and they love it so much.
Please, do not get me wrong; sex is good. It is a mandatory and important element of marriage, but in the context of a guy looking for who to call a wife and get married to , it is extremely dangerous to marry a woman that loves sex so much.
A woman who is a sex maniac can never be pleased or satisfied. it is because she loves it so much; and if you don’t want to be hearing or seeing your woman messing around, then watch out for this attitude and run away from such woman.
Lesson: By their fruit, you shall know them!!, They can hardly stay with you for a week without constantly asking for sex, they are always horny e.t.c
- 4# The Bitter and Nagging Woman
Bitter women have one similar attribute ‘ they hardly forgives and forget issues’. These factor is the reason why they are always bitter.
They keep and hang on to past issues, they don’t forgive themselves for the wrongs they have done etc.
How do you know a bitter woman?
A bitter woman nags; a bitter woman flares up at the slightest provocation; a bitter woman is abusive; a bitter woman rain down curses; a bitter woman is in the mood of always getting angry at men especially.
Her past hunts her, probably due to being jilted, used and dumped by various men etc; she does not see any good in a man any longer. She lives in the past!!
Lesson: So, watch out for this type of woman because if you hurt her; you will not believe her other side of life!!
- 5# A woman that is selfish
How do you know a selfish woman? A selfish woman always care about herself to the detriment of her man and people around her.
A selfish woman will not give you happiness in your marriage because it is naturally in her resolve to place her demands first, even above her man.
- 6# The Gossiper
Hope you still remember the Wikileak founder? His name is Julian Paul Assange. Popularly known as the whistleblower, the man exposed high classified information about individuals and countries on the internet.
Anyway, his own style is even of a lesser damage when compared to the institution called marriage. A woman that gossips are the worst set of people to ever associate with.
If a man by mistake married a woman that gossips, then such man should know that he can die anytime, his business can easily get destroyed and that he is not safe at all!!
How do you know if she has the tendency to gossip around?
The first litmus test is that you will discover that she does not mind her own business, she is constantly concern about other people, talks about other people’s issues and affairs!!
Lesson: Such women are dangerous to the security of your home because what is important about getting a woman is actually building a home together, with your life, future and children.
- 7# The materialistic woman
Obsession in a woman’s life is a disease that is not easily cured. Now, a woman that is naturally obsessed with flashy material things more than caring for the home, the man and not being prayerful is a danger.
To be honest with you, such women will turn their man into an ATM machine, they will not be calm to actually plan with the man.
- 8# A woman that LOVES party
Please, do you note the above phrase ‘ LOVES’; there is nothing wrong in going to parties occasionally, but the danger inherent is if a woman is a party type, then such woman is not fit to be a good wife.
Such women naturally loves partying, they do not see anything wrong in travelling hundreds and thousands of distances to attend parties. They can attend more than 2 parties in a week etc.; They are always ready to go to parties.
- 9# A woman that LOVES Clubbing
One thing I will say about this is that it is dangerous. A woman who loves to club can never be a good fit to be a wife material.
There is something wrong about being a lover of clubbing; it distorts your focus, it destroys reputation, it turns someone to a sex maniac etc.
But note, I am not condemning going to club occasionally but being a customer in a club on a regular basis is a red flag for such a woman.
Lesson: A man that wants to get married should not marry the club girls. You will not be the only one enjoying her!!
- 10# A woman that is totally spoilt
Marriage is sacrifice, marriage is sweet, marriage is not a bed of roses, marriage is challenging!!
Getting married to a woman who has been naturally spoilt from her childhood or who has never worked in her life might not be a good choice for you.
The reason is because such woman will not value everything you will do for her and this is a dangerous issue. Remember, the kids will come etc,; challenges on the part of the man may arise ( financial, job loss etc);
- 11# A woman that is unstable and lacks commitment
Marriage is ‘ till death do us apart’. Marriage is based on 100% commitment and sacrifice. if your woman is an unstable woman i.e she is not a woman of her words, easily discouraged, jumps from one decision to the other; then the sad truth is that it may be difficult for her to remain stable and committed in the marriage.
How and how do I know this?
There is no smoke with fire; a woman’s behavior is like smoke!!
- 12# A woman that is always seeking attention
Know this truth, no matter how your husband loves you, he cannot be with you 24 hours of the day. Sometimes, he may not even be there when you need him, probably due to job demands and some other stuffs ( which are not intentional).
If a woman is finding it difficult to understand this truth right from courtship, then such woman may not be a good fit.
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